DOG SEPARATION ANXIETY TIPS

 

Separation-Anxiety - Hard to believe that our Jake, the relaxed, without a care-in-the-world dog pictured above, could have ever been anxiety-ridden.  But, it is so true and we've got the scratched drywall, chewed woodwork and destroyed hardwood floors to prove it.

However, we are now able to start repairing all the destruction with a certain amount of confidence that he will not  tear it all up again.  At least not as badly.  Jake is still not happy when all his family leaves at the same time.  He still hangs his head, mopes and usually refuses to say goodbye.  As we back out of the drive he can be heard barking his displeasure.  But now when we come home, we are not met with total chaos.  There is still drool in front of the door and his water and food have gone untouched.  He truly is in mounring until his people come home.  When that happens, watch out!  He is flying about the house, grabbing toys and challenging us to chase him.  And he will then drink enough water to float a boat.  Life is good again.  It wasn't easy getting to this point but so worth it.  The following things helped:

• Make your departure as uneventful as possible.  Resist the urge to hug, kiss and make over your dog in an attempt to soothe your guilt.  This lets him in on the idea that something big is about to happen and he probably won't like it.  I've done this and it never ended well.  Instead, keep everything as low key as possible.  Pet him if you must but make it a quick pat and just move right out the door as if it is no big deal. You can cry in the car if the need arises. Overcoming separation anxiety requires you to be tough.

• Leave lots of his toys about to give him something to amuse and distract.  Also, an old piece of your clothing can provide some comfort to him.  Your scent is one of his favorite things.

• Start out with short absenses.  Try 10 minutes to start, gradually increasing by 5 minutes increments.  He'll realize each time that "Hey, they do come back!"

• Make your return as uneventful as your departure.  Enter the house calmly and greet him but do not fonle, make baby talk and generally display your guilt to him.  After in the house for a short time, then you can play and have some fun.

• Be sure to doggy-proof the house before you leave, for his safety and your sanity.